It’s also about being proactive and confident and about creating and seizing opportunities. The basic theory that Matthew Hussey puts across is all about making eye contact with a guy in the right way, giving him a little smile at the right time, giving him the opportunity to approach you and making him feel like a man when he does. And, for anyone wondering – Does Matthew Hussey’s Man Myth technique work? Here’s my review. For the past few months I’ve been following his advice and thinking a lot about the approach he recommends. About 8 months ago I signed up for Matthew Hussey’s Man Myth videos.